My message to our sisters born in the 80s and 90s -The Kenyan ‘wives’ that never were

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A woman who cannot prepare food, clean dishes and do other household chores can never make a wife.

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A bit of make up is good to help one look stylish but it beats the purpose for one to paste acres and acres of synthetic stuff on your face so that you look more plastic than human.

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A lady can take a glass of wine, a guarana or a black ice once in a while but you don’t need to be a scientist from the moon to realize that a woman who spends every weekend and sometimes even weekdays in a bar will never make a wife.Otherwise when will she take care of the kids?

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A bit of junk food is okay once in while but a woman who spends every free moment at Pizza Inn will be a candidate for Slim Possible – and a possible nuisance – sooner than expected.

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A wedding is okay but it is simply irrational to expect your man to go for a hefty loan to facilitate the one day event just to massage your bloated ego.

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Consultations and considerations in major family decisions are crucial but it is unnatural and a blatant disregard of the laws of natural justice for the woman of the house to demand for equal rights with the man in every family affair. Even religious writings are very clear on the same.

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I expect this simple and straightforward opinion piece to raise enormous criticism and condemnation from the self proclaimed feminists roaming all over our lovely country but that will not deter us – men of good will – from giving the correct advise to our sisters who we wish the best in life.